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How to navigate two significant financial decisions: starting a family and buying a home

Q. My wife and I have been married for just over a year, and our friends and family keep asking us when we are going to have kids. We’d like a family, but we aren’t sure if we’re ready. We make ends meet right now with our current income, but we don’t know how to budget for diapers, extra food and clothing and daycare expenses. We want to own our own home someday, too, and want to plan accordingly. How do we know how to plan for these things?

A. Starting a family and buying a home are both significant financial decisions. You are wise to think these decisions through, as people too often view them as casual, next-move kinds of choices. Ultimately, you will need to decide on your own what to do, based on your own goals, not on what others might expect of you.

Asking questions is great way to think about and plan for the future. For instance, will you both continue to work after the baby is born?  If so, daycare can be a significant expense. What are the average day care costs in your area?  Some couples are willing to work alternating shifts so they can save on daycare costs, but this means you may see less of one another. Are you willing to do this? 

If one of you decides to stay home, can you afford to live on a single income? Is there a way for the stay-at-home parent to generate income from home?  Do you get paid family leave?  Will you plan to take more leave than you get paid for?  There’s no right or wrong answer to these questions, but your answers will determine how you plan for what comes next.

Daycare costs are only one consideration. You need to consider health insurance, too.  What deductible and co-insurance will you have to pay to have a baby?  If both of you carry single-coverage health insurance through your employer, adding a baby, a dependent, will change your coverage needs.

Many people are surprised to find that changing from single to family, or single-to-dependent coverage, can mean a considerable increase in health care costs. Both of you should check with your employers so that you have a sense of what it would cost to add dependent coverage. Given the risks, you simply cannot go without health insurance for anyone in your family.  

Once you gain a sense of out-of-pocket expenses associated with having a baby, then you can make a better informed decision about the timing of starting your own family. You’ll need to employ the same kind of big-picture thinking about your future as a homeowner. What kind of down payment and closing costs can you expect to pay? How will the cost of a new home compare to what you pay now in rent? Are you committed to staying in one place, or do you like the idea of moving to a new city? How will your decision to have a family influence that kind of house and neighborhood you choose?

To help you answer these—and other home-buying questions, I encourage you to take a HUD-approved homebuyer education program.  You need straight forward, unbiased information when you’re considering such a large purchase.

You’re on the brink of some exciting, new adventures in your life. I encourage you to gather as much information as you can, keep an open dialogue between the two of you, and land on a decision that reflects what you both want.

Bonnie Spain is the executive director of the American Center for Credit Education and Consumer Credit Counseling Service of the Black Hills. For more information, email acce@acce-online.com.

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